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Article: I Have Accepted a Life with Alopecia

Alopecia

I Have Accepted a Life with Alopecia

Meet Pernille, who has alopecia areata, and read about how she experienced the entire journey of hair loss and wearing a wig.

My first hair loss started in my youth with a few bald patches about the size of a coin. The patches have been there more or less ever since. I received several different treatments through my dermatologist — some more painful than others… Until the summer of 2019, when my dermatologist believed my hair loss had become too extensive and that I should consider a wig 😱

Pernille when her alopecia started to become severe Young woman with alopecia areata. There is only hair left on the top of her head. Pernille has alopecia areata and does not have much hair left on her head

In 2019/20, things moved fast!

A lot happened in my personal life, and suddenly almost all my hair was gone! As my hair disappeared, I felt that my femininity and personality disappeared as well. I found it incredibly difficult to figure out who I had suddenly become. Because it wasn’t me I saw in the mirror!

Fortunately, I had amazing people around me who did everything in their power to support me ❤️🙏🏼

I was so nervous the first time I stood outside Toftild in Aalborg. I felt sick and fragile, even though on the outside I tried to show that I was strong and ready. Once I had said “A,” I had to say “B.” I had an absolutely wonderful experience and received help with my first wig 👌🏼

The time afterward, wearing a wig, was something I had to get used to. I felt like everyone was looking at me and only thinking: "There goes the girl with the wig, she must be sick." But I have to admit that people really don’t look as much as I felt they did. I can see that today. And maybe it’s because now it’s me wearing the wig — not the wig wearing me.

Pernille without and with Hair Topper

Use the left and right arrow keys to navigate between before and after photos.

After 2½ years of wearing a wig, I still miss my natural hair. I miss being able to walk around with messy morning hair and throw it up in a messy bun. The feeling of washing my hair – yes, I miss everything about my old hair. It’s just not quite the same feeling when you wash a bald head 😂 But I choose to stay positive, and I appreciate that I can set my hair the night before! And that I can take my hair off when it’s warm. I have a few friends who are quite jealous of that 🤪

I have accepted a life with Alopecia and being bald. It has become a part of who I am. I am not sick! I have just lost my hair!

- Pernille

Are you also experiencing hair loss?

Are you experiencing hair loss yourself, and would you like to learn about the options we offer to give you more hair? You can book a free, no-obligation online consultation with Lise, who will assess your hair loss and provide our professional evaluation of possible solutions. All it requires is that you complete the form below. It will greatly support the professional assessment if you attach a few photos of your hair loss, but this is not a requirement. The photos will be deleted after the evaluation is completed. Please note! Response time is up to 7 business days.

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